Now before you take that for what anyone would take it as, just read this.
Girls are "crazy" in the way that they let there minds create diffrent scenarios for every situation possible. If something isn't going the way we think it should, we think of about 20 different reasons on why. If it has to do with a relationship, it's usually because we think you hate us.
I think its in our genes to just automatically jump to a conclusion that makes no sense at all. I mean why else would we do that?
I personally think the cause of this is lack of communication and where a relationship is headed because if things are clarified then that leaves no room for a girl to jump to conclusions. Girls feel they need to do this because they are feeling insecure about what their relationship is.
Some girls, me being one of them, are to scared to just communicate and say what they want to. You don't know how the other person is going to react and you get scared that it will ruin things and then you won't have any relationship at all. Ive always been a BIG offender of not communicating and just letting it all build up.
After my most recent relationship ended I kept telling myself that whoever I end up with next will know every though in my head and ill ALWAYS just say what I'm feeling and want... Well here we are next "relationship" and I am still not doing what I told myself I would. When my friends come to me and ask me for advice I tell them just be 100% honest and open and say whats on your mind but I never can seem to take my own advice.
I always get so worried about how the other person is going to feel and never really care about how I feel. I hide what I'm thinking in order to make the other person stay happy but then just drive myself crazy with what ifs... but what I'm learning is that there is no "what ifs" and there is only what is.. But the problem is also just that.. You don't know what is going on and so all the what ifs come flooding in.
Thats probably where guys start to call girls crazy, and we might be a little, but I don't think many guys stop to think why did she feel this way.
Everyone is so afraid to communicate and just say what it is that they are feeling. I personallly am not proud to be one of these people.
My current problem right now is being so unbelievably happy with someone but wondering on how he would ever chose me and my wild child.
Have you ever just been so happy and thought that this is too good to be true... this is my life currently.